A FEW MONTHS AGO I stumbled into the house with my baby in his car seat, cloth bags filled with groceries draped over my shoulders, and mail clamped between my teeth. As I searched for a place to put down my load, I was annoyed to see a ratty pair of checkered underpants dotted with fairies sitting on the dining room table. “Mariela, what are your underwear doing here?” I snapped at my six-year old.
“Mom, I left them there for you to sew,” she replied. I picked them up and saw that the pink bric-a-brac had started to disintegrate and pull off the faded fabric on the hand-me-down panties. I rolled my eyes, “I’m not sewing this; you have plenty of other underwear,” I said.
“But Moooommm,” she whined, “I thought you could sew them and bring them to See and Save for some other little girl to enjoy.” Oh, jeez, I thought. I was both mortified and thrilled as I snuck them into the trash; my kid is too conscientious. But what, exactly, does conscientious mean?
Although I have been a freelance writer for many years, it wasn’t until I took on the editorial duties here at Teton Family Magazine that I truly grasped the importance of every word: words in titles, words in stories and captions, the number of words and how much space they take up in a publication with a small budget, and the words we use to represent our mission.
The words that have been giving me the most difficulty are sustainability, conscientious, community, and green. Here’s what I think:
SUSTAINABILITY describes a system of practices that are healthy for our bodies and the environment, economically viable, have a positive influence on communities, and can be maintained indefinitely.
BEING CONSCIENTIOUS refers to thinking carefully before acting, and acting according to the dictates of one’s principles (as opposed to conscious—which is simply being awake and aware).
COMMUNITY is especially tricky—it can refer to almost anything: you, your roommates, your hometown, your bioregion, your religion, your nation, or all of humanity.
GREEN is often used interchangeably with sustainability. Technically it can refer to either money or a healthy environment, but I’ve decided you can’t talk about one without the other.
Still pretty vague, eh? Perhaps that’s because, as a friend suggested, these words are all really just value terms, not unlike justice, health, happiness … even God. Precise meanings are difficult to pin down because they mean something different to all of us.
While we can probably all agree that the core ideal of sustainability is that we preserve something for future generations—and the way we do that is a personal decision. If it doesn’t taste good, if you can’t afford it, if it’s a chore, then it’s not sustainable. For example, I made a gallant effort with my second baby to use cloth diapers, but a soggy baby and endless laundry brought me to tears, so I pawned them on eBay.
The mission of Teton Family Magazine is to provide readers with tools to make conscientious, sustainable choices that benefit you and your community while considering both kinds of green. It’s easy to get overwhelmed with all the things you could be doing—but give yourself a break. Slow down, revel in your successes, and leave time to enjoy what makes life in the Tetons sustainable for YOU.
Have fun!
Sue Muncaster
